5 Signs That He’s Not Interested

According to the latest temperatures, I think it’s safe to say that cuffing season has or is about to come to a close. There may be a few that are still going strong but for those that are now receiving mix signals here’s 5 ways to know that he is not interested.

Or should I say that he’s no longer interested which may only be because of the increased temperatures:

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Girl Talk: Check Your Inner Circle, Sis

Women love to do one thing, I mean we love to do a lot of things but there is one particular thing that we just looovveee to do and that is: talk. Our brains were designed to make us the communicators. We talk to the kids, our man, the pastor, our supervisor, strangers, dogs, squirrels, and whoever else will listen.

And even though it’s a blessing to have this communicating gift as a superpower if used incorrectly it can be a curse. We talk so much that we talk to people that we shouldn’t talk to, we talk to people that we shouldn’t let into our inner thoughts.

We talk to those friends or that toxic man and wonder why we feel so isolated, misunderstood, or accepted and it feels like there is no one on our side. 

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Girl Talk: Two Words You Don’t Want To Hear: Forgive Him

The way to truly and honestly forgive a person is to pray for them. It’s a simple concept but because of all the memories, experiences, and emotions towards that person, it’s the hardest thing to do.

You know how hard it is to pray for someone that you absolutely cannot stand in real life. You know how hard it is to be in prayer and have to say their name out loud and tell God that you forgive them. Just having the conversation in prayer is difficult on its own. But sis, to have to pray Lord bless them and give them great things and a great future and have your hand on their lives, now that’s a whole ‘nother level of difficulty. It’s also a whole ‘nother level of maturity.

You may be reading this thinking that this task is easy, you may even think I’m going to go pray right now and list everyone that hurt me so that I can forgive them and move on. But please know that once you start speaking out loud the emotions and memories are going to flood back.

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